Re: [Keralites] Do it yourself

Hi,

informative & useful article.

saraswati nair <saish_sara@yahoo.co.in> wrote:

Do it yourself

 

Politeness is generally not only accepted but also appreciated in all spheres of life.  Living in society, we need to possess certain qualities, amongst them being politeness, that enables us to live among people and to interact with them successfully.

 

We have to choose our words and thoughts carefully, no matter whether we are having a bad day or we are just tried of the way a person is behaving.  It truly requires a lot of restraint and self control to avoid reacting to provocative behaviour.

 

When a person behaves badly, we wonder whether to sever all relations with that person even if he is a dear friend.  I say you have to do what's good for you but do it with love.  Severing something that is causing you mental anguish and problems may sometimes be necessary but one should not harbour negative feelings towards such a person in a nice and polite way, it may infuse a new air of trust and friendship into the relationship.

 

We cannot control others and how they act or what they say, but we can certainly set an example by our own polite and considerate behaviour: However, this does not mean that we should not stand up to wrongdoing.  We can be assertive without being offensive while defending our rights and opposing a wrong.  For example, when we pay for something, we expect to get what we pay for and if we don't, there is nothing wrong with our speaking up and saying so politely and firmly.

 

 

 It's about you, not them.

 

 

 

 

 

                                                               SARASWATI

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